Thoughts and Intentions
Thoughts and Intentions
In July, Manifesting Goals suggested you invite the Spirit of Love, Gratitude, Forgiveness, Prosperity, and Freedom to live within you. Are you remembering to thank these Energies for living within you? Are you remembering to give thanks twice a day?
For those of you that did this exercise and are giving thanks daily and possibly twice daily, would you be kind enough to leave comments on how this has changed your life?
As for myself, I’ve began to thank these Spirits for being throughout the land of the United States.
This morning I found in my email box a request to focus on four specific items to help in manifestation. I believe three of these are great the way they stand. The fourth is a request to focus on a specific country (Israel) and religion (Muslim) to have them make decisions and choices for love and peace. When I read this it took me back, for shouldn’t all countries and religions be focused on this?
Listed below is my version of the request I was sent this morning.
- All world leaders are highly spiritual (not religious) people with the interest of the world and of humanity foremost in their thoughts and actions!
- All bank directors and directors of public companies think of their clients and shareholders before themselves, thus bringing prosperity back to the world.
- Public education includes a compulsory course on ethics and manners.
- Public opinion turns decisively and powerfully towards peace, love, and cooperation. Gang members focus on non-violent actions desiring peace and safety. Countries in turmoil to become peaceful within their borders and religions become accepting of other belief systems.
Happy Holidays – whether your thoughts are with the Yule Log, a baby in a manger, or victories of days gone by –
May the Spirit of Peace and Goodwill reside in your home.
Cindy
Deserving Success
Deserving Success
It’s been a while since I last updated. This morning I read a report on building relationships through email and it triggered a situation I had during one of my recent workshops. One participant had stated she had been told all but the last couple of years of her life that she didn’t deserve anything good to happen for her. When, I introduced EFT and the tapping points I used her statement and set it up to reflect what she had stated.
SET UP: Even though, I don’t deserve any success. I forgive myself. I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
We stated that three times on the karate chop point. Then I carried it through to the next nine points and repeated it.
Head – I don’t deserve any success.
EB – I’m not good enough to have success.
OE – They tell me I don’t deserve anything good.
UE – I don’t deserve any success.
N – Yes, I do!
C – No, I don’t
CB – I don’t deserve any success.
UA – I don’t deserve success.
At this point, the she said to me, “I don’t feel comfortable saying I don’t deserve success, because I know that is a falsehood. Can we use another word?” Again, I asked her what word she would like to use and she couldn’t think of anything. She then replied. “I’m uneasy using the word deserve because that part of my life is behind me. I don’t have a problem with it anymore.” I looked at her, smiled, and asked, “Are you sure?” She laughed and said, “You may right. If I can’t say it, then I probably have a problem with it.”
The point is just because we consciously have put something behind us, doesn’t mean the subconscious has put it behind us. The old programming continues to lurk within our subconscious until it turns to dust and blows away.
As long as the old programming remains it will produce blocks, whether we want to admit the blocks are there or not. It’s always better to focus on the clean up even if you consciously believe there isn’t a problem, than to let it possibly remain clouding your success in ways you don’t visibly see it. If you really don’t need the clearing for the particular problem you are focused on, you may need it for a situation you are not focused on. The process can help clear areas you are not intended on clearing.
Tomorrow I’ll relate a story to the woman who refused to participate.
To Your Continued Success,
Cindy
Spinning Your Wheels
Spinning Your Wheels
Revelations galore were presented this past week, either through consulting sessions or blogs that are on my to-read list.
This week Ian David Chapman wrote in his blog a very adept analogy of how you become trapped in the rut of spinning your wheels, while you think you are moving forward in small steps.
Clients often hear me state, “Accept no guilt, no shame, no blame.” All three emotions are a waste of energy and not congruent with achieving your goals. They stymie the body’s electrical circuits.
Instead of my duplicating what Ian David Chapman wrote, click on over and check out his blog.
To Your Continued Success,
Cindy
Create a Mindset
Create a Mindset
As I sit and contemplate my corner of the web, I visualize how I want my site to grow. The direction I want the energy to flow. My subconscious will work toward what it believes is real, so I visualize in as many details as possible to make the scenes look and feel real to me and my subconscious.
When in military boot camp, we were told all types of stories to encourage us. One story I remember is the one about a golf enthusiast who was also a Vietnam prisoner of war veteran. He sat in a box unable to see his buddies, who were in adjoining boxes or in near by cages. Daily he envisioned playing golf. After he returned home he pursued his dream of playing golf with his dad. First time on the golf course since he went to war, his game was amazing. It was his best score ever.
How could this be? He visualized daily how he would make the back swing, what club he would use, and how it felt. The first time on the course after all the visualization he did as good as or better than he visualized. He had convinced his subconscious that his game was good. When he played and his subconscious believed his game was great, and he played a great game.
You can achieve your dreams the same way. Previously, I’ve talked about turning your neural pathways into super highways. This is done by learning and practicing new things. Each time you visualize you create stronger connects that will allow you to learn how to create what you visualize.
Your subconscious or unconscious mind doesn’t differentiate from the real physical events and those you create using your mind. Chose to create a new mindset and attain your dreams.
EFT can help by removing the emotions that hinder your sense of deserving and ability to allow yourself to accomplish your goals with little effort. Tapping your meridians while you visualize is another good way to assist in removing static energy that clogs your ability to achieve powerhouse status.
As A Writer
As a WRITER
Change is hard especially when you work out of your comfort zone. How do you begin to step outside the box we built around yourself and understand how to achieve your dreams?
I’ve found that writing in a journal daily; listing my short term goals is a good beginning. I would write the same goals each morning for a continuous fifteen minutes. Reconfirming, in my awareness, that what I desired – I would continue to work toward these goals daily. With each smaller goal, I would become closer to the over all dream that I had envisioned.
The more your subconscious is aware that you are going to change and that it will be safe. The easier it will be to shift the frequency to become what you desire around you. Actually, the subconscious needs to see it repeatedly before it will accept the frequency change as a truth.
As a writer, your chosen profession is a hard path to tread. You receive criticism from your writing partner, your critique partner or critique group, rejection from publishing houses, small and large alike. Along with receiving one rejection, you probably received more if you are actively writing and submitting your articles, stories, and novels. It’s very easy for the subconscious to turn that around on you making you believe you are not a good writer, you aren’t worthy of publication or no body likes you.
How did you go from writing to no body likes you? That is an extreme case and it can happen. You’re subconscious interpreted the despair you developed when you received the third rejection form letter in one week to mean that you felt no one like you instead of no one liked your work. This is a corner stone for writers block to take hold. Is it valid? Consciously, no it wouldn’t be. Nonetheless, to the subconscious whose desire is to protect you from hurt, it is something you need protected from.
My experience with this sneaking up on me happened when I had been writing for a year. First off, my family and friends loved my stuff. That gave me the confidence I needed to move forward. I joined a critique group. My heart sank. The only good thing said, “I’m sure there is a story in there some where.” Other members told me to keep trying and to learn grammar, especially my tenses. I spoke daily, people understood me. I wrote like I spoke and that was the disaster. I stayed with this group for several months. Continuously, I was told the same thing repeatedly. I’d been studying Strunk and White, carried that little book around with me for fun reading. Boring, yet I acquired better grammar skills. I had become determined. One week my turn arrived to submit another chapter. I received my critique sheets from everyone, when I noticed two members had exampled the work to the exact way I had presented it in the prior session. It was time to move on to another group.
This time I partnered with only one person. We were both beginning our careers in novel writing. We developed the habit of writing a few pages every day and critiquing it for the other. Our stories were forming and our confidence levels began to rise again. Beliefs in ourselves allow us the courage to invite a couple more to join us. We were shattered again and later suspicion set in once again.
I’d been doing my EFT exercises and decided to take my first chapter and turn it into a short story. I submitted it to the group and it was dashed down. Not changing anything I submitted the short story to a couple of magazines. Two sent me contracts for it immediately; the other three said it was well written but not what they were looking for.
During this time my subconscious played the hero and tried to protect me or what I like to call sabotage me. The voices in my head would tell me different things: you’re silly you can’t write; you have nothing to say that anyone wants to hear; other people are smarter than you, you should give up. That is when I developed the habit of doing EFT regularly, to help build my neurons into super highways.
Building a new habit takes twenty one days. The subconscious needs to be continually programmed to accept the new frequency of that habit. If your passion is writing, you should build the neutrons for excelling at the level of writing you desire to be.
Let’s begin with a round of EFT directed toward you accepting that you deserve. Go to: www.ustreamtv.com/manifestinggoals to tap and follow along with me.
To Your Success,
Cindy
EFT, Prayer, and/or Mantras
EFT, Prayer, and/or Mantras
Earlier this afternoon, I spoke with my dear friend Raymon (www.ramongrace.us) and we compared notes on soul retrievals which lead into the conversation about EFT.
Recently, he started using EFT sort of. He forgot to tap. He said it like a mantra or prayer. The tapping was forgotten but the words were not and he used the words in a prayer form repeatedly. Now… he’s found that we need to INVITE in to our space/US the Spirits of Love, Gratitude, Forgiveness, Prosperity and Freedom twice daily for quick change. He’s been doing using this method since March or so with great benefits.
Even though, I don’t have the Spirit of _Love_, I choose to invite the Spirit of Love in and allow change. I invite the Spirit of Love to live within me. I forgive myself for not doing this sooner. I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
If your choice is to use the tapping points:
KC – Even though, I don’t have the Spirit of _Love_, I choose to invite the Spirit of Love in and allow change. I invite the Spirit of Love to live within me. I forgive myself for not doing this sooner. I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
EB – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.
OE – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.
UE – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.
UN – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.
Ch – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.
CB – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.
UA – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.
Head – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me. Thank you for joining me.
Repeat for each Spirit or Energy that you call forth to live in your life and thank them daily for joining you. After a month, give thanks twice daily.
To your Success in Sharing Love, Gratitude, Prosperity, Forgiveness and definitely Freedom,
Cindy
The Subconscious and the Neural Highway
The Subconscious and the Neural Highway
Our subconscious has a job to do. It is to keep us within the boundaries which it believes will keep us safe. When we step out of those boundaries, the subconscious has all kinds of alarms, bells and whistles going off to stop us. On our way off the irritant path, we will need to reprogram our subconscious. This sounds easy, until you begin the training process. The training process is building the neurons into a super highway. Oh, that’s right; you got bored and wanted to give up. Not so easy when you observe it from that point of view.
Remember it takes twenty-one days to build a habit. Once you build the habit, you’ll have the first layer of brush removed from the new trail you’ve blazed. You want to continue for another twenty-one days to make sure none of that old brush sneaks back onto the trail.
To Creating New Habits,
Cindy
Believe In Yourself
Believe In Yourself
Recently, I read a book by Susan Solovic, Girl’s Guide to Building a Million Dollar Business. Her statements made so much sense about becoming a success. I’m sure you remember the saying, “If you don’t believe in yourself, nobody else can”.
Use EFT to remove the writings on your wall (the smart mouth whispers you hear in your head), which continually backbite you, as you do your best to move forward. EFT is a wonderful thing. By concentrating on removing all broken circuits, due to bad programming earlier in you life, you can concentrate on rebuilding and building your self-esteem from this moment forward.
Dr. Rachna Jain, a Baltimore psychologist and business coach says, “Self-doubt is one of the main reasons business owners don’t achieve the level of success they could”. As writers, independent contractors, consultants, or parents, how can we achieve the level of success we desire if we allow self-doubt to creep into our lives?
Stop and recognize the incredible being you are. While the place in life that you currently reside reflects who you were yesterday, imagine the amazing place you will reside tomorrow, due to the fact of your truly believable place of wealth you are today. You may have bounced checks all over creation, or behind on your bills, but look where you are now in your thinking than you were two years ago? Isn’t it amazing?
With the mindset of believing in yourself, the million dollar threshold can be yours to cross. This setup statement might be a bit beyond being able to be said out loud for some of you, and that’s ok. Hum it instead.
Even though, I don’t believe in myself. I forgive myself.
I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Some people have spectacular support systems and have been built up most of their lives, while others can’t remember anything nice being said to them while growing up. You must remain your own best friend. Believe in yourself. Give yourself pep talks daily. Use Patti LaBelle’s song, A New Attitude or Queen’s song We are the Champions as your theme song. Play them and say your affirmations out loud while they play. Say your affirmations with lots of emotion. Do this a couple times daily. You’re frequency will begin to change and you’re mindset will shift. You will be aware of it, and soon others will be too.
To Your Success,
Cindy
Entrepreneurs and Solopreneurs
Entrepreneurs and Solopreneurs
Do you keep track of the business your website attracts? Once you get to a certain point, Alexa.com starts keeping track of the comings and goings. This is excellent to tell how your competitors are doing also.
I notice when a company slacks off in advertising, the tracking on Alexa shows a down swing for the site. I don’t have an Alexa toolbar, I tried it once and it was very handy to see whose site is doing what as you visit them. Check this traffic monitor out. It’ll give you the inside skinny to how your site is doing and how it stacks up to it’s competitors.
Have fun checking out your favorite websites with this wonderful little graph. www.Alexa.com
Build Your Success,
Cindy
P.S. Look into www.quantcast.com It is similar to Alexa with more helpful features. I use both when researching doing business with a website.
Where Attention Flows
Where Attention Flows
The Law of Attraction is everywhere. Did you notice where your intention is, that is where your attention or focus flows and manifestation follows. I have a couple of projects in the works. This particular project started to blossom and take on a life force of its own. Not only was I intent upon it coming into fruition, but others were too. Where I had placed a lot of intention and attention on my keynote speaking engagements, to the point of waking in the middle of the night and they were there in my thoughts. Now, it is this newer project.
To Your Success!
Cindy
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